Clothed with Strength and Dignity

 Modesty and The Heart

Today's topic is on modesty! It is a controversial subject, but I am gladly willing to break the barrier if need be. Modesty isn’t just about how you look – it’s also about how you treat others, focusing more on your character than just your appearance. It does not matter if you are to wear the most expensive dress in the room if your character is flawed, you are repulsive. 

I want you to adorn yourself as a woman of velour embodying the essence of a soft and velvety fabric associated with femininity. Have you noticed the women from reality shows? Those women are absolutely gorgeous, but the moment they speak, it’s all about condemning, drama, lying, and gossiping – it really undermines their dignity and worth, making them seem so much less than they truly are. This blog is focused on helping you possess both. I want you to move with grace! Do you get the picture I am trying to paint here? 

Spend Time with God 

If you have not peeked already, the title of this blog is drawn from a Bible scripture in Proverbs 31:25 (NIV) which says, "She is clothed with strength and dignity". God really helped me refine my definition of 'beauty'. He helped understand that beauty and value does not beg to be seen or scream for attention. If you have really grasped your own beauty, you’d carry yourself with more confidence, without the need to highlight your curves, cleavage, or abs. However, please refer to God in this area of your life. rather in every area. When I first started my modesty journey, I would ask God if He was pleased with my outfit before stepping out of the house or simply, "God what do you want me to wear?". He always came through for me!

How To Develop Your Personal Style

1. Minimise following trends

Following trends can be a slippery slope, not every fabric, color and overall outfit flutters your body type. Instead, follow women with the same body type as you or with style that resonate with yours (stick to modesty, Girl). Always opt for classy outfits and try to build a capsule wardrobe it really comes in handy. 

2.Wear the right size, just because you wear a size 8 does not mean that every pair of jeans or trousers that are a size 8 will fit you amicably. Make peace with that!

 3.Not everything has to hug your body, ladies! Instead, pair flowy bottoms with a snatching top and vice versa. If not that, layer your outfits, wear crop tops on top of turtlenecks or shirts it looks stunning. Also wear oversized shirts/cardigans over and outfit you feel is too revealing, that always saves the day. Hands down!

4. Wear more colors and textured clothing to add a little more edge to your looks. And accesorise this elevates your outfits!

I follow these ladies on Instagram for inspirations:

@themayagraves

@lydiafleurfashion

@hafymo

@edaowofashion

@_rayyaansari

Disclaimer: Not all of these ladies are Christians, and some don't always stick to modest fashion but that's where your discernment comes in.

Ladies, dress in a way that exude the beauty you carry. Allow your natural beauty to shine through.

Well, that is all for me ladies. Remember this conversation does not have to end with me. Let's meet in the comment section, shall we? Do recommend some of your favorite ladies, please! The more the merrier. 

With Love

Paraa